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A Feeling I’ll Never Forget

It was 1968. I was sitting in the library of my college when I went into a dream state. I dreamed about the possibility of serving God in a way that would change the world.  I felt it so deeply it brought a warm feeling of God’s presence in me.  Tears welled up in my eyes and dropped on the page of a book on my desk.  They startled me but I didn’t want to wake up and lose that feeling and the vision I was experiencing.
My tears were of sadness because we were losing 58,000 young men and women being killed in the Viet Nam War. Sadness because prejudice and discrimination were rampant throughout my southern homeland. They were also tears of joy that I could be a part of God’s plan to make a difference in our country and world.  I had the privilege of preaching the confronting and challenging message of Christ in two little country churches on the border of Tennessee and Kentucky.  They weren’t what you would label liberal, but they listened, and gradually over time, began to be changed by the teachings of Jesus.
That day was a feeling I’ll never forget. It was a feeling I don’t want to forget. It was a feeling I wanted to carry with me for the rest of my life. Those tears gave me the blessed assurance my decision to follow God’s call into ministry was my center and destiny.
My wish for you is to have a moment like mine when you feel God’s guidance to use your talents to change the world.

Agape, Kimball, S.E.

The Heart Of Hallelujah

LukeThis is a picture of my 5 year old grandson, Luke, singing his little heart out and praising the Lord. I’m not sure he knows what praising the Lord is all about, but I do know he loves singing and dancing in his church choir. Our job as parents, grandparents and church family is to teach him the deeper meaning of praising the Lord, having the heart of hallelujah as a child of God.  I want my grandson to grow up not seeing the church as a somber institution, but as the joyful Body of Christ.

I have written a new song entitled The Heart of Hallelujah. I wanted to write a song with words that would lift our spirit, and a tune that would get our toes tapping and our hands clapping. Take a moment and listen to this song and feel the joy it brings.

All of life should be lived in hallelujah, which means, Praise to the Lord.


Kimball Coburn, S.E.

There’ll Always Be Songs


In the 1950s, before “Sex, Drugs & Rock ‘n’ Roll” became a lifestyle, there was Doo-Wop. Like many teenagers at that time, my Dad jumped in. Actually, he dove in head first. While still in high school, he began writing, recording and performing his own songs. Kimball soon became a rock ‘n’ roll star in and around Memphis, Tennessee. Young Kimball discovered a love for creating music.

When the 60’s rolled around, he and his high school sweetheart, Pam, were married and began their family. Kimball Jr, Collie, Kathy, and Cari immediately became more important than stardom. But Dad didn’t stop writing. Also during that time, he felt God calling him into the ministry. It was a new and exciting chapter for both Dad and Mom, and us kids. And Dad continued to create music.

The Coburn Family Band – 1974

So what happened in the 70’s was no surprise. Dad traded in his baritone ukulele for an electric guitar, Kimball Jr found his groove on the drums, I got cheesy on my Vox Continental organ, and the girls filled out our sound with tambourine and sweet sounding harmonies. (In case you’re wondering, The Partridge Family was NOT based on us)

Dad’s passion for songwriting didn’t stop, but it did change. What changed was the message he would share with his new audience. That audience was the Church. Throughout his ministry, Kimball has worked creatively to encourage, challenge, and share God’s message of love in ways that will stick long after the sermon is over. That’s one reason why Dad’s ministry has been successful for more than four decades.

Since the good ol’ days of “Michael Row the Boat Ashore” and “Kum-ba-yah”, the Coburn Family Band has grown in membership and musical ability, adding talented family and friends along the way. Our name changed to The Calling Band, but our mission to help Dad share the message remains.

Cari and Dad

As I write this brief history, Dad’s new CD, A Servant’s Songs, is being put together at the manufacturer. It contains 10 brand-new songs that I believe are his finest yet. When you download and listen to There’ll Always Be Songs, you’ll certainly notice that Kimball, the doo-wopper from the 50’s, still has a passion for songwriting. But it’s his genuine love for the Church, along with the natural blend of Cari’s voice that makes this Coburn family duet so special.



Hungry and Humble

I really like to watch Rafael Nadal play tennis. He plays like he’s hungry and he acts like he’s humble. His uncle, who is his coach, told him when he was a boy, “always be hungry and humble.” Rafael is regarded as one of the greatest players of all time

Rafael Nadal

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I would love to see us, the Church, take on this way of thinking and acting – hungry and humble. The opposite of hungry and humble is fat and sassy, or full and satisfied, or spoiled and jaded. Are we fat with the “isms‟– institutionalism and denominationalism? Are we spoiled by money and organization that doesn’t seem to require excellence?

When I think back to Methodism in America, I can almost feel the pulse of the people, hungry to hear and learn. and humbled to go and share with others. Jesus said, “Blessed are those who hunger for righteousness.” He was teaching us that God wants us to be generous, to speak for justice and work for the good of others. Jesus also said, “Blessed are the poor in spirit.” God blesses us when we step back from our ego driven lives and assume the discipline of humility and obedience.

Congregations who are hungry and humble are very noticeable. They have a joy that’s missing in far too many churches.

Recently, I was visiting a church. I felt the liturgy was meaningful, the choir sang on key, and the preaching was well constructed with solid theological content. But there was no joy.

2011 BNP Paribas Open Final

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I miss joy in our churches. Joy isn’t jokes and jumpy songs. It’s the feeling that God is with us. A feeling God is real, alive and lifting our spirits. And yes, good preaching and good music are important parts of a joyful worship service when they touch a nerve or spark a feeling. Joy goes deep. It causes us to dream, it moves us to discipleship. It creates celebration and thankfulness for life.

Why is it that hungry and humble churches are joyous churches? It’s because they are churches that are reviving and renewing their spirits and rethinking their ministry. In their humble surroundings, they see the words of Jesus come to life. They are willing to witness for righteousness and are grateful for the privilege to do so. Their people are disciples of Christ, not just members on the rolls. They experience meaning and joy through getting in touch with God’s purpose for their lives. They become a part of the building of the Kingdom of Heaven here on earth.

God is calling you to be hungry and humble. It won’t make you number one in the world but it will make you the best Christian you can be. If you decide to respond to the Call today, I promise you that Joy will come in the morning and for the rest of your life.


Kimball, S.E.

How to Thrive in a Struggling Church

Collie Coburn Jr

Collie Jr is the children’s pastor at First Christian Church in Santa Maria, CA, and my grandson.  He and his wife Dana have been wonderful additions to that church for several years.  Although Collie is young, he wrote these wise and thoughtful words of encouragement in several recent blog posts.  I’ve condensed them into one post.

 -Kimball S.E.

How to Thrive in a Struggling Church

Collie Coburn Jr

When working in a struggling church, it can be hard to be optimistic. Sometimes it seems like good news is hard to come by, or that everyone is just in a rut. And while serving in a struggling church has challenges, there also comes with it a great opportunity – the chance to create something great. After all, when things are going well, people are all the more averse to change. Nobody wants to mess with a good thing. That’s why sometimes successful churches (and organizations) struggle with being innovative. But when you’re in a struggling environment, you’re in a position to look for and try new ideas. You may not need to work as hard to sell the idea of change because it’s evident that change is required! Of course, turning around momentum is difficult, so the challenge is to create something that will really make your congregation get excited and jump in.

If you find yourself serving in an environment of stagnation, don’t give in. Prayerfully look for an opportunity for God to do something new and big, and then chase the dream. After all, a struggling church often gives you the best chance to create something great.

strugglingchurchNever Stop Planning for Growth

It’s really easy to assume things will stay the way they’ve been. When you’re growing, you think you’ll always grow. When you’re on the decline, you assume there are no changing things. But there is! At some point, the opportunity to grow will present itself, and when you are working in a declining church you need to be ready to change direction. Never stop planning for growth. It will keep you hunting for new ideas, provide encouragement, and lay the groundwork for good things ahead.

Talk to Someone

The need to have friends who can guide, admonish, and hold you accountable is present in every ministry context. However, when you are working in a struggling church, the need to find people to talk through ministry takes on a different tenor. Find people who you can be entirely open with, and that often means going outside the body of your church. Talk to people with expertise; people who understand the unique challenges that come with ministry.

Find people who can speak truth into your life. We need people who can tell us when we’re wrong, misguided, or plain dumb. After all, the pain of being corrected by a friend is far more bearable than the pain of realizing you’ve been on the wrong path for weeks.

Ask Hard Questions

Looking back, I feel that I could have avoided an immense amount of frustration if I had simply asked, “Why do we do this thing?” Sometimes you’ll find there are great reasons, but often you’ll find the reason you need a change of direction.

Actively Fight Discouragement

Discouragement will happen. It will happen in thriving churches as well, but it can be especially insidious in hurting ones. You need to know when discouragement is having an effect on your ministry, and you also need to know what will help you fight through it.

Remind Yourself that God’s Work Isn’t Finished

When you serve in a declining church, it’s easy to think that the future is fait accompli. It’s not! Even in struggling churches, there are opportunities for growth and for God to turn things around. It may be difficult, but it’s certainly possible.

Take Holy Spirit-Inspired Risks

God wants to do great things in your community, but often our desire to hold on to what we know prevents us from chasing these opportunities. If you feel the Holy Spirit leading you somewhere surprising, go for it. After all, God wants to use your church to grow His kingdom, so don’t be afraid to try something new.

In conclusion, hold on to hope! God can do great things. He wants to do great things in your church, so keep listening and chasing the dream. Know that I’m praying for all of you who serve in struggling congregations. I know God will move in powerful ways.

The Need For New

Sigmund Freud wrote: “The church socializes its youth to ask only those questions the church is able to answer.”  Can this be true?  If so, it would explain why the church struggles to be relevant in today’s society.

Now, I’m not preaching chaos, but I do believe the church needs newness.  We need bold, creative, and imaginative thinking that will take us beyond our institutional parameters.  It starts by asking questions that challenge us to look at things in new ways.  Of course, not all new ideas and actions are the right ones, but let’s not squash them before considering them.

I’ve worked with many youth and young adults in my ministry, and they are full of ideas and questions.  Every time I come away from a meeting where the program led the young people into a free flowing discussion, I feel renewed with hope.  I’ve also had the privilege of meeting and working with many pastors.  Some are very excited about the possibilities of taking the church into the future.  Others are tired and discouraged, feeling they’ve done everything, with nothing new to try.

The good news is that as long as there is God and the teachings of Christ, there is always incredible potential for the local church to alter the spiritual landscape of it’s community.

So keep probing – keep pushing – keep pulling – keep reshaping – keep rethinking – keep renewing.


Kimball, S.E.

Could I Hang With Jesus?

Crowd4blogThere comes a time in every person’s life when he or she is faced with the choice to go with the crowd or stand against it. The “crowd” can represent money, status, acceptance, career success, conformity, popularity or just plain coolness.

Sometimes the crowd is in our churches saying we ought to say and sing the name Jesus, but not always do what Jesus would do. The crowd doesn’t always like the radical ways of Christ. They disrupt comfortable routines. They confront, challenge, and call for change.

Honestly, I sometimes wonder if I could have hung with Jesus. I really would like to have walked and talked with him and learned from him. But after being the lead singer in the band, the lead on the team, the lead preacher, could I be a follower too? Has the popularity and acceptance made me so comfortable that I have lost the courage of the prophetic spirit? Am I willing to live out the teachings of Jesus to the point of losing my crowd pleasing status?

Eugene Peterson writes:

Every time we retrieve a part of our life from the crowd and respond to God’s Call to us, we are that much more ourselves, more human. Every time we reject the habits of the crowd and practice the disciplines of faith, we become a little more alive.

To answer the questions posed above, well, let me say it like this. I do want to be liked. But I’ve learned that when it comes to the crowd leading the church in being a comfortable social club, I must stand and speak out. When I see the church gaining the crowd but losing her life, it’s time to give up popularity for the prophetic spirit.

Help us, Lord ~ give us the strength and courage to hang with You.

-Kimball, S.E.

Rethink Church

Kimball 1960s“Called to be the Church, yesterday and today”

The United Methodist Church is in a campaign to “Rethink Church.”  I like it. It’s catchy and hopefully will cause people to see church in a new light.  For seekers it’ll help them to see a church that is open to doing things differently.

Rethinking deeply, profoundly and prayerfully is a demanding spiritual exercise.  It means putting our imagination and creativity to work.  Rethinking church means preaching the Good News in ways that excite people and calls them to action.  It means genuinely reaching out to people because we care about their souls.   It means being bold enough to challenge and change the reality of our decadent society.  It means being innovative in worship.  There is no one style of worship that fits all.  True worship is warm, moving and uplifting.  It should be indigenous to the people.

Rethinking church is thinking again how Jesus taught us to live our lives for one another and in community.  It’s a “re” word that is part of the family of renew, revive and reformation.  To do this:

We need to look around today
We need to speak to every age
We need to go beyond the walls
We need to witness and live so all can see

If you’re thinking, “Kimball is on the verge of writing a song,” you’re right.  In fact, I’ve already written and recorded it.  I hope you will download it, enjoy it, and share it.


Kimball, S.E.